Time goes by so quickly and the last 14 months in particular time has accelerated, I find myself in my 40’s now, the most domesticated I have ever been, living in an era where people care enough to ask your pronouns..it feels like the future. I was thinking about that today as I dressed for yardwork…i’m very switch being both femme and butch at different times and it made me smile that today those traits are acknowledged and accepted as valid. Not that you need others to validate yourself, but it feel nice to know that teenagers today feel more free & safe than I did in the 90’s to express themselves and not get caught up in strict narrow paradigms

Here is a moment captured in time, happy & playful… one where doing housework doesn’t feel like a chore and the evening ahead has laughter to look forward to…the silver linings.

NOTE- while this video is not graphic you will see cleavage and if you know me IRL that could make you uncomfortable depending on how mature you are :), proceed with the warning